I like to judge people.
It gives me a momentary “rush,” makes me feel good about myself, because, if nothing else, at least I’m better than the person I’m judging.
I’m not sure how I got here. Most of my thoughts about myself aren’t good ones. I don’t feel like a good parent, a good spouse, a good blogger, a good Christian, etc. One of the only times I do feel good about myself is when I see someone do something stupid and think “hey, at least I’m not as bad as that guy.”
But that’s crap – I do stupid things all the time. I could provide a very long, very entertaining list of stupid things I’ve done recently but I’m too embarrassed, too worried that you’ll judge me and stop reading my blog. For now, I’ll leave you with the illusion that I’m not a complete dumbass.
Turns out that you can’t judge others and not do the same to yourself. Maybe that’s what Jesus meant when he said “If you judge others, you’ll be judged.” It’s so true. The harsh judgments I pass on others come right back around, almost immediately, like an old, scraggly dog you just can’t get rid of.
Two Lies, Actually
To judge others, I have to firmly believe in two things that aren’t true.
Lie #1 – I’m better than everyone else
I regularly pass judgment on people who are overweight, which is interesting because I’ve spent the majority of my adult life wrapped in 40 extra pounds. Read more